She has lost family members of my parents' generation, and pets, but no close family members. But she has watched, eg, dilletante's parents grieve; we have totally discussed that. I like more tangible emotional discussions of that sort.
Several people now have mentioned having practical discussions... and I see a lot of value in that. I mean, I do it myself! I also find it steadying to focus on "what would I do". Thank you.
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Date: 2012-08-11 12:21 am (UTC)Several people now have mentioned having practical discussions... and I see a lot of value in that. I mean, I do it myself! I also find it steadying to focus on "what would I do". Thank you.