dynamic elf

There's a million ways, I think, and -- it depends on the person. One thing that might apply to most people is: share a new-to-them experience. The quiet of mountains with a far horizon, or molecular gastronomy, or a new mind state, or a book of poetry, or Cirque du Soleil.

It's still tricky, though, because they've got to be open to it. If I wanted to take something like this on as a project, I'd probably ask them to go along with three (or five) new things that I orchestrate for them. I'd try to internalize these for myself as things I really want to share with this person before they go; because they might not be persuaded, and even the thought of being persuaded might be distasteful to them. So maybe just sharing. I'd be sad if I never got to share these with you, and so, so happy if you let me. I think they're beautiful, and you're beautiful, and I want you to experience that beauty.

Something like that.